Have I mentioned before how much Seamus hates to ride in the car? I don't think I have. Basically, I would say eight out of ten times we take him anywhere in the car, he cries. I am not talking about just a little fussing, but actual screaming. The screaming turns into gasping which turns into vomiting. As you can imagine, we have avoided long trips. For those of you who know Seamus, you know that he is a very happy, smiley little guy most of the time. It is just in the car that this very unpleasant behavior rears its ugly head. As for the two out of ten times, or so, that he does not scream as if he is being tortured, well...I have no answer. We have not found a common denominator for those peaceful moments, so I guess I'll chalk it up to luck. The screaming must just be in the paternal genes :).
As we contemplated the Michigan trip, which is a nine hour drive, our biggest obstacle and concern was Seamus' travel screaming. So we strategized and spent a lot of money prayed that all would work out. First, we bought a new car seat that allowed Seamus to sit upright more than his original infant seat which he so distained. Second, we filled a diaper bag with lots of interesting baby toys that he hadn't seen in a while. (When those failed, we resorted to odd objects in the car to keep his interest, such as cup lids, rubber bands, hair headbands, water bottles, floor cookies (just kidding), maps, Taco Bell hot sauce (unopened)...you get the idea). And third, for the big guns, we bought a duel portable DVD player. I should note that we have made it through sixteen years of parenting and seven kids without the need for a portable DVD player. For Seamus, we didn't bat an eye...we knew it was either try the DVD player or not go. Why a duel system? Because we figured if we had one for Seamus in the middle seat and Erin didn't have one in the back seat, it would only promote her screaming, which would defeat the purpose of getting the thing in the first place. (As it turned out, Erin was content either way. She is our role-model passenger. Hopefully she'll rub off on her little brother soon!). Our final strategy consisted of filling our DVD case with the most annoying toddler-friendly DVDs we could find. We overdosed on Wiggles, Barney, Bob the Builder, Signing Time (which I do like) and Kipper the Dog. (Kipper the Dog was actually a commercial that came before a Wiggles DVD, and it was his favorite! Who knew?! Imagine Moira and Eileen sitting in the middle seat next to Seamus, rewinding the Kipper commercial six dozen times. That will give you an idea of our lovely ride to Michigan. (Trust me, Kipper is better than screaming.)
We thought we'd start out our journey with some quiet car time, then bring out the toys. We had planned to save the "big guns" (that would be the new DVD player) for when he really needed it...when his screaming became serious.
The big guns came out before we left the driveway. Seriously.
And.......................it worked!!! Here is Seamus, still smiling, around Chicago.
Saved by the big guns!!!
As I mentioned in my earlier post, we spend the day on Tuesday with family, which was wonderful. After the funeral the kids had the opportunity to spend a little time with their cousins at the hotel pool - a real treat!
Molly Grace
Cousins...(Colleen, Bridget, Emmett, Teresa, Molly Grace and Aidan)
Grandma M and Seamus